First date and beauty, the heart must be very nervous, does not always know what to say. May wish to show a good impression on her, then relaxed and natural conversation, induced the other topics of interest. Here is a common ten topics:
1, brothers and sisters meet for the first time to talk a bit about what is good? Parents to talk about it, something wrong, it will cause her displeasure, in case of separation or divorce of her parents. Usually the topic is to talk about the brothers and sisters. Talk to the brothers and sisters, can deepen understanding, active atmosphere. And you want to know her family, you like her, so easy to win her trust.
2, monuments had been to the monuments? She was happy to answer, it would not be wary. To let her start a conversation, you then ask her to introduce you to, as long as you do a faithful listener, she will soon create a good impression on you. Then you can re-take the initiative, asked her if she still want to go somewhere, if she always wanted to go to a certain place, you have an opportunity to come. The courage to say, "I always wanted to go that day we go together, let us work together to achieve a dream, right?" She will be very happy to accept your invitation. Talked to these, her background, hobbies also learned a lot.
3, like the food if you are in a restaurant or bar appointments, to talk about their favorite delicious, this is a pleasant topic. Talk about food, you can not only understand her taste, to find common ground, and never have to worry topic. If she paints, first seize the opportunity to boast about, and then asked her, "I heard drooling day a real treat." Even if she knew you compliment her, she is also very popular. If you Marketer, do not forget to invite her to taste your craft.
4 Work if you graduated from college, have been working for some time, to talk about the work is a good topic. However, you have to control the initiative, do not let her keep long-winded life worry about trivial matters, she will be getting more and more upset, you heard the more impatient. However, the majority of people talking about the work, even if it is uninteresting, also right hype. That's okay, you can at least know that she will be a workaholic or a good housewife.
5 Future plans can talk about your life at the University? Would like to continue to go to school? She may be very interested in these topics to talk about special about her student life, interesting things, to obtain a variety of honors. However, she may also reacted coolly, saying only that the work of professional counterparts, and then change the subject. However, no matter what the situation, give you a compliment her a good opportunity.
6, close friends and her talk to her friends. Maybe you do not know them, but it does not matter. She would be very happy to talk about her friend, the details of their contacts, meeting time, place. Maybe you is not interested, but do not impatient, but you know she a great opportunity. And she would like to continue to develop it? Start from the understanding of her friends.
7, hobby like stamp collecting, singing, or dancing? Like sports? Like to listen to what music? These issues can not help but ask, or how do you know her hobbies. And she also hopes to show themselves, serve multiple purposes to do, why not do it.
8, do not mention her old love, first date, do not ask about her old love. This topic, if she had not filed, you can not ventured mouth. She may still love him, still in pain of lost love. First meet, do not think to talk about her past lovers, to enlighten her, comfort her, will be able to win favor, and often counterproductive. Want to please her, do not let her memories of the past and talk about happy things. Remember, your goal is to win her, not to wipe her tears.
9, talk to the ideal of childhood ideal of childhood, which is a very interesting topic, both relaxed and happy, but also to promote feelings. However, you do not rushing Buddist hold, let her speak, she said, the more pleased to Me and you will.
